You Are Not For Everyone
The world is filled with people who, no matter what you do, will point blank not like you. The good news is, there are also people you know right now that love you fiercely.
How are you making your world brighter with, and for them?
These are your people. You are not for everyone, and that’s OK. Spend your time with people who get you.
Sometimes, we get it in our heads that we need to try getting those that don’t like us to change their minds.
My question is…
Why is this so important?
The energy you throw out to them, is energy you are taking away from the people who have earned the right to have you in their lives.
Don’t waste your time and precious gifts trying to convince them of your value, they will never want what you are selling.
Should they be allowed to affect your sense of Self, or make you feel any less than you know you are worth? I think not.
Don’t believe me, ask your people!!!
Don’t convince just anyone to walk alongside you. More than likely, you are not on the same path anyway.
Face your true north, and keep on walking. If you need occasional reassurance, ask one of your people to hold your hand.
Why waste your precious time and theirs, likely inflicting unnecessary wounds, which will take more precious time to heal?
I knew someone once who often took himself off his own path where he was dearly loved and admired. He insisted upon seeking out people who couldn’t have cared less about him. It’s sad, but he died feeling wounded. His time to heal ran out!
You are not for them, and they are not for you, politely wave them on, and continue merrily along your way.
Remember, you have your people. If not, make it your goal to find some!!!
Sharing your path with someone is a sacred gift; don’t cheapen this gift by giving it too freely.
Not everyone knows how valuable you are. And you don’t have the time to waste convincing them.
Be This Your Truth!!!