What’s not to be missed?
All the crap that you read about, heard about, negatively thought about, and oh yes…created in 2019!
Thoughts you may still be entertaining about what might have seemed dire in 2019.
All the crap that went on in your house, on your block, around the world.
I mean it.
It’s behind you!
It’s another year, sure only days passed.
But still, what’s there to miss about it?
2019 is gone. Over. Binned. Finished. Yesterday.
And not to be missed!
People who you feel have made your life a living hell.
Any doors that didn’t open for you.
Believe me subconsciously you could be missing them, especially if you think [remember the power of your thoughts] this harassment will never end.
Minor health issues that kept you up at night and which seemed like your worse nightmare.
Once you get used to anything happening in your life, you have difficulty missing it when it’s gone, because you keep waiting for the other shoe to drop.
It may never, so heal this spot instead.
YES!!! There’s more.
The heartaches, the drama, the arguments, the horror, the terrorism.
And check in with your subconscious, just in case things you may miss are holding you back below the surface.
Check for self-imposed triggers, anchors, and rubs. Even voices. You know that pesky negative self-talk!
Things that will be agitated, woke up, and brought back into your mind with little prodding.
The goals you swore you would achieve in six months.
The de-cluttering you said you were going to get to. Ugh!
The new rugs, curtains, new lamp, new carpet, etc.
The promises, promises, promises you made to yourself that you still haven’t fulfilled.
So last year!
The thing you said to someone or that someone said to you. Good grief!
Why are they not to be missed?
Because you can’t get a positive start on “living” your highest and best in 2020 if you miss these things, or whatever you’re lamenting about from 2019.
These blaggards have come and gone, flown the coup, leaving you here in the present moments of…
Say tootaloo, wipe your brow, and get busy living in the now, hopefully already collecting positive memories worth keeping hold of right where you are right now.
Final Thought
So, don’t dilly dally.
Instead…
Take this moment right now, and ask yourself..
What’s Not to Be Missed For You?
*Thanks Google Images*
Great post! I’ll follow your advice 😊
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Hi Debbie. Thanks for leaving a comment. I always love receiving them. And if you follow my hodgepodge of age old (collected) wisdom, I’m chuffed to know what I’ve picked up down through the years is of benefit. Happy New Year…each and every day!
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Thank you for this! I need to be reminded not to drag what seemed heaviest and what hurt the most into new days of possibility.
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I’m happy this post helped. Happy New year…each and every day!
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Good advice, hoping for the happiest new year for you!
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Happy New Year to you…each and every day!
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Oh so true Jen.. There’s a few people I’m ‘not going to miss’ or waste any further energy over.. Just a few loose ends to tie up and then I’ll never be thinking of them again! Onward and upward for 2017 is definitely my order of the day! Thanks for the great reminder to ‘move on and live in the now’ Wishing you a magical 2017 too. x
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Great post
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I apologize for missing your reply post. For some reason it landed in my Spam section for goodness sakes. I am happy to drop by your blog. I love blog hopping, and appreciate your stopping by Sparkyjen. I will be reading more on your blog shortly. Highest and Best!
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From on Jen to another–exceptional advice! I am going to get on it Right This Second! We may not have control of what goes on around us, but we do control our reactions. 2016 was heavy for countless people. So let’s stop carrying it around, shall we? Thanks for lifting me up and holding me accountable today!! 💕💕
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My blog like yours comes straight from the heart. We never know who needs what we like, comment, share, but we pay it forward anyway. We are being the change we seek!
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Oops…one Jen to another…geez!
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I try to let go but some things seem to have attached with glue. One good thing about getting old is that I can’t remember much of what I am supposed to resent. Thanks for your recent visit to my blog.
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I’m with you Carl on the getting older part. I have found that feeling resentful has an adverse effect on my overall quality of life. Maybe we both have found better ways to utilize the energy it takes to resent our bygones. Highest and Best!
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This was absolutely encouraging! I needed to read this more at this moment, than I did at the start of the year, so I am glad that I am just now discovering you and your writings. I needed the positive reminder. Thank you! God Bless! ❤
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You are so welcome!
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Great post!
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Thanks so much. Highest and Best!
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Great post! Cheers!
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Thank you. Happy prosperous 2020!🥳
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A fresh start!
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Exactamundo!☺️
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The final thought was a good closing, also that is why when healers do work they recommend replacing the areas that were not in good health with something healthy so that the negative doesn’t grow in again.
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Exactamundo! Happy prosperous 2020.🥳🎉✨
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My word for 2020 is “Now”–as in, stay in the moment. Your post is a great reminder! Happy New Year.
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Alrighty then. Moments can certainly be interesting!😏 Happy 2020!🎉
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And Now is all we’ve got!
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Indeed. 😊
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Happiest New Year to you, Sparkyjen! 🙂
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